Several spots along the Red from Lockport downstream to north of Selkirk, all with good access points.
Lockport you can get on the ice at Stu's at Cats on the Red on River Road. In Selkirk you can get on the ice north of town at the airplane base near Sugar Island. Keep going north and you'll pass a few more shanty towns with access before you get into Breezy Point area.
I'm going to Sugar Island tomorrow so I'll let you know how I did.
I hear the saugers are slammin' at Lockport, so if constant action is what you need for fishing with your wife (
) then try Lockport. Sugar Island is hit and miss from all the reports.
Good luck and if all else fails on the ice....tell her you love her!!