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Ice fishing isn't for everyone, but some of us women do enjoy it. Probably because we generally enjoy doing things together with the men in our lives. After reading some of these posts, I can believe that your partners don't want to be out there with you. My husband passed away a couple of years ago, but I was out fishing this weekend! I find that most men are surprised when they realize that it's a woman out there drilling her own holes, running a fishfinder and catching fish, too! So good luck on the ice and at home, 'cause it sounds like she's gonna need it!
im facing a major decision in my life....3 years ago i took on a girlfriend with a 3 year old daughter....the daughter is 5 now and she calls me dad, and likes the outdoors enough, but not really hunting or fishing.....the girlfriend never wants to do anything anymore....i stay 40 miles away in town 5 days a week while im working, since thats the only place i can find work and commuting is too expensive.... on the weekends i spend time with them....but now all we do is argue. i cant drink beer even, i cant go fishing on my days off without her throwing massive guilt trips at me, every time i come out she goes thru my phone, my bag, my clothes, tryin to catch me doing something wrong...i havent been happy with my life for months....i think i need to clear the slate and start all over....im already looking for an apartment and saving money. problem is i dont wanna leave the kid hangin....cuz if i leave, i cant keep relations with the kid. very hard decision.....some of you mite call me a jerk, but i dont think so.
me first fishing second wemon later
foregiveness is easier than permission
The secret boys is to compromise. I've been married over 20 years and I make sure that everytime that I got out fishing that I spend some quality time with her. Those mornings I make a special effort to make sweet, sweet love to her. It only takes about 5 minutes and after that she practically pushes me out of the bed and out of the house!
oh man, I was thinking about buying a ring and poppin the question to the little lady but reading some of these post makes me want to rethink it. I think I ll be alright though. Heres the lil' miss teamlund. She likes fishing in summer but isnt that big of a fan of the ice fishing She does get alittle upset during the walleye tournaments and bowhunting during the rut, mostly becasue I am gone so much and dragging arse and tired....