You have obviously failed in you spousal training program.
From the very beginning of my 38 year betrothal to my wonderful bride, she's been trained not to interfere with any available fishing or hunting time I may have. The "honey do list" is non existent in my kingdom. I simply won't tolerate it. I make the rules around here and the first rule is. "I fish whenever I want to".
Good thing she's in Vegas visiting the kids, she'd kill me if she saw this
By the way, it doesn't hurt to send them on a trip once in a while so you can get out.
RG