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I'd be pissed, too. I think he owes you something, but I doubt if that will happen. Let him know that it was not a gift and move on.
Ive given things to friends, and friends have given things to me.. an unwritten man rule is you never sell something a friend has given you... Dunno if it would piss me off, but would definitely make me disappointed if the person did it and did not NEED the money
sorry you got burned.If I'm lending stuff out to a beginner, I kinda expect it to be broken within the first use or two. That's why kids get the plain old 5 inch B&W ice graphing unit versus the old one that has GPS, custom maps and loaded waypoints.
I am both hard water and a soft water fisher. I upgraded my sonar and fishfinder outfits a few times during the past 3-5 years. Had a person I know tell me that they were having a hard time finding fish and having no luck. I asked what he used for electronics? " No electronics he could not afford any. Well, I had a spare Lowrance all seasons Elite3 and said "hey look I have this unit at home sitting in my basement would you like it to use it?" Happy he was and I myself was feeling good until recently when he told me "sold my boat" me "that is good" now you can use the 3 elite more for ice fishing" him"no that was part of the deal" I know I wrote the system off last year when I gave it to him to use, I guess I just was not prepared to have him sell it......grrrr
Ive given things to friends, and friends have given things to me.. an unwritten man rule is you never sell something a friend has given you...
I guess I really don't know why you haven't talked to him. Your intent was to help him out and apparently you ended up helping him out more then you thought. You should be happy, not pissed at him. When I do something to help out others, I do it based on the assumption that they are better off than they were before I intervened, that is my intent. And it would appear to me that he was better off after you gave him the car. You should be happy for him and kind to yourself, for being generous not angry. Being angry negated your kindness! And for those out there wondering, my wife and I gave a car away instead of selling it. We considered it as belonging to the new owner, as soon as we handed over the keys and they could do whatever they pleased with it. Just my opinion!
.... Hand is out facing up for a handout instead of in a position to help.